Romance...

I finally rented some movies last night...got to snuggle on the couch and watch some chick flicks...happy was I, but I'm woman I got to thinking about all the romance I was seeing in these movies.

Romance is the heartbeat of love. Why aren't most men more romantic? Okay just to get started it's not about money. Poor men can be romantic I've seen it done...Some of the most romantic things I've seen have all been done for under $20... my ex took small pieces of notebook paper and wrote "simulated rose petals" on every piece and sprinkled them all over the bed...lit a couple of candles on the headboard and it was on! (Good one Phil) It was the thought of him thinking of me that got me turned on...didn't really give a shit they weren't real rose petals, he couldn't afford those, but he could afford to think about me and put his thoughts in action. He asked me out on a date via an "anonymous" letter slid under the door...we were living together so it was really unexpected(Another good one Phil!)
My hubster when he gets in a mood can be romantic, small notes in coat pockets or left on the seat of the car...SCORE!!!
But he is a "normal" man and most of the time whatever romantic thoughts he has don't become action. (Frown...Boo) Romance is not about getting her to the bedroom, but getting her to take YOU to the bedroom.
Stay the hell away from roses they are just tired and tacky...overused and abused...be creative put some thought into what you want to do for her and to her...If something doesn't have a heartbeat it dies...and love is a living, breathing, growing thing.
Every woman wants romance, to be thought of and longed for. Every woman.