Take care of you

Life is happening all around me everyday and I'm trying to keep up. It's been a struggle in the last month, but I feel I'm getting on track now.
Talked to my Daddy today, tried to talk him into getting his prostate and colon checked. It was a no go...the man has worked at the same hospital for the last 27yrs, he's a dept head for Christ sakes, but he won't have the tests done. I worry about him because he has a lot going on. With the death of my ex step mother(bitch!) a couple of years ago he's raising my 14yr old little sis and he still has my 2 little brothers, my grandfather and his(my Dad's) wife to deal with. I just want him to be around long enough for me to have to take care of him. Even though that thought scares the hell out of me. I love my Daddy, flaws and all. He loves me just the same.